When we fall into our negative thoughts, which usually are the predominant thoughts we have, we dwell in a negative space and everything in life seems to challenge you, especially the: "I am not good enough for that" or not thinking that you actually could or would deserve better than the misery, although you realise that it is "not normal". Life is a challenge in itself as does not abide to "normalcy". It actually is meant to be more easy and fun when surrounded by good company, a good environment helps, and if only we can change our mindset about our inner struggles and the loneliness we suffer from the modern day society.
Have you acknowledged this modern day life which, close to family or not, brings forth an isolated lifestyle? If you can acknowledge the fact that modern life is setup to be isolating, we can also break this isolation no matter how we feel about it. We are often our worst enemy. And the walls of our houses and apartments don't contribute to more connection. By breaking the barriers, we can change the course of our inner lives and automatically our activities will change, new friendships are created, support is found, new ideas come to fruition and you can even find new career paths, business or activities and hobbies.
I watched Her by Spike Jonze, thanks to my husband's initiative and support to watch more movies. The movie is about the human consciousness and relationships through the tech savvy age. It perfectly describes what makes us human, what creates our relationships and what breaks up marriages. If you want to overcome the human struggles for the most part of it, there is a path of enlightenment and fulfilment we can take. Many people have gone through this path and uplift of their human experience when feeling lonely. It requires a deep healing, and mostly it requires a different mindset about our inner world and our daily life on the planet.
Contradictory to the primitive mindset where we dwell in our emotions and thoughts of "I'm not good enough", is to see any emotion as a positive motion forward in your path, more important than anything else to get you to accelerate in your learning and actualisation. Ask questions and share your e-motions with people online and when you are courageous enough offline. Also, start by stating your end mission: "I am good, I am happy". After that, work with the emotions that pop-up to contradict that statement.
Great every day as a new opportunity
Saying a Good Morning to the day ahead, will automatically make you appreciate the fact that it can and will be a GOOD day, no matter what happens or does not happen. No matter what someone says or does or does not say or do. No matter how much stress, work, frustration you experience or how dumbfounded, bored or lonely you get. The lessons in the challenges are ahead and you can be at more peace with yourself as you've learned the lesson to be at more peace with yourself and taking actions forwards to a better fulfilled life and lifestyle. Your most important work is to care for yourself; the inner and outer. Take care of your body, mind and soul and along the way teach others to do the same and meet others half-way. Respect Mother Earth and Father Peace and make little contributions to a better way of life, a better society, a more beautiful humanity. This is your mission.
What is it and is it relevant? We can answer this in 3 steps:
Step 1 YOU: Increasing Consciousness and its Creativity is key to becoming YOU and bringing Peace in your daily life. This is even more crucial for current day parents. Imagine self-feeding, self-disciplining, self-care and problem solving for everyone involved WITH EASE
Becoming a conscious, or awake, person stimulates and increases the Emotional Intelligence (EQ) of that person and his family members (parents and children), which in return brings back the absolute peace to your inner self, your relationships, your work and your home. Unfortunately, we were not taught enough about neither Consciousness nor EQ in schools and our upbringing. We were taught many faulty ideas about ourselves, humanity and our society. You can unlearn these faulty ideas that are hurting you and relearn new ones that will empower you, by staying in touch with your authentic being and waking up to the nature and nurture of things. I can guide you and provoke a rude awakening. I offer you a quick version of education, all the necessary insights, aha-moments and practical tools for a healthy lifestyle so you can make parenting yourself and others easy, more quickly. I started my parenting journey in full consciousness of what it means to take care and parent a baby human being. My extensive years of theory and practice in coaching, healing, health and life's struggles, plus my master degree in Andragogy (science on how adults learn) brought me to a place of full confidence about what humanity looks like. The parenting journey took me on another ride, a deep healing and understanding of parenting oneself and fostering the communication we have with ourself, others and the world at large.Once you grasp the understanding of coaching, healing, health and life, the whole parenting of your little ones and your role in it, becomes clear. A lot of education, therapy, reading, your own extensive research on Google, and pitfalls can be avoided in order to guarantee a healthy and vibrant growth of the human beings you are taking care of.
Step 2 OTHERS: Does my Consciousness affect how I feel, function and parent? And Vice Versa, does it affect my world at small and large? Yes, always! It gives direct access to Health and Happiness.
The (inner) World is not by definition a peaceful place. Whatever you "think" and whatever "works for you" through neglect, force, solitude, anger or grief doesn't actually "work"; it breaks down humanity in yourself and it decreases the Emotional Intelligence (EQ) of humans you come in contact with. It contributes to the fear, hatred and pain of your (inner) child's world and THE possible future you live in. It is time to do "what works" in relation to nature and nurture of our human spirit. The ancient civilisations, Native cultures and the First Nations of the Americas and elsewhere have done this all along. In the modern, fashionable worlds we need to redefine that what we believe in to find a better truth, a better "true", about being human and being alive. We do that as individuals in order to improve our lives. Consciousness carries a different world view and a never ending search for the individual and society to LIVE their truth without fear.
Step 3 MEETING PLACES: Are Peaceful, Conscious, Creative People in homes, schools and companies a realistic goal? Yes! Today it can happen. Let's Get Real and Play!
Consciousness is like our Universe + Emotional Intelligence (U+EQ) and creates the counterpart to misery as we know it. EQ is a great window and tool to developing ourselves and others in a more original, peaceful and soulful person from the very start. Until now, our parenting, schools and often religious places are not designed to teach us much about EQ, Consciousness, neither awareness, personal development or healthy habits. With a higher EQ there would be less problems created and both children, parents, pawrents and others can live more happily. Unhappiness comes from unconsciousness and from emotional blocks (trauma) that are keeping you in a low conscious level. This results in depression, low energy, addictions, abusive relationships and burn-outs at home and at work. I'm here to help you raise your consciousness bars! Both at work and at home.
The Human Child and The Human Parent
\\ This is To Celebrate You \\
You are admired and adored by... me! \
I love what you do and what you don't do \
I admire your determination and creativity \
I adore seeing you happy and I respect when you are sad \
I listen to your problems and solve them with you when you are mad \
I want to be there for you and see what next steps you take \
I'm like your parent, your coach and best friend \ Maybe even a partner in "crime" \
I am side by side on this revolution towards self, love and self-love \
The ultimate purpose, we hold ourselves, to ascend, ascend, ascend \
May the force be with you, step into your light \ Be brave, face the dark and slay the dragons \
The universe has your back \
Lean on me|
Hi Human Blog is for the why's and how to's on Conscious Parenting and my daily encounters. My name is Andromeda, I'm a mother to 2 little boys. I live on an exotic island in the Middle-East called Bahrain, famous for its pearls and springs of youth. My favourite motto is "Don't be led by your problems, be led by your dreams". I'm passionate about Inner Peace, Consciousness, Parenting, Arts and Native Cultures. This blog is an experiment with all that. I also expertise in Mindfulness, Emotional Intelligence and the Power of Now in parenting. I've written a book about my Maiden to Motherhood experience, and baby's full potential in their first year, The Diamond Year, including emotional intelligence, holistic health and body awareness. I believe in a new world with old wisdom and human super powers.