How you can break your lonely struggles by breaking your mindset?

When we fall into our negative thoughts, which usually are the predominant thoughts we have, we dwell in a negative space and everything in life seems to challenge you, especially the: "I am not good enough for that" or not thinking that you actually could or would deserve better than the misery, although you realise that it is "not normal". Life is a challenge in itself as does not abide to "normalcy". It actually is meant to be more easy and fun when surrounded by good company, a good environment helps, and if only we can change our mindset about our inner struggles and the loneliness we suffer from the modern day society.

Have you acknowledged this modern day life which, close to family or not, brings forth an isolated lifestyle? If you can acknowledge the fact that modern life is setup to be isolating, we can also break this isolation no matter how we feel about it. We are often our worst enemy. And the walls of our houses and apartments don't contribute to more connection. By breaking the barriers, we can change the course of our inner lives and automatically our activities will change, new friendships are created, support is found, new ideas come to fruition and you can even find new career paths, business or activities and hobbies. 

I watched Her by Spike Jonze, thanks to my husband's initiative and support to watch more movies. The movie is about the human consciousness and relationships through the tech savvy age. It perfectly describes what makes us human, what creates our relationships and what breaks up marriages. If you want to overcome the human struggles for the most part of it, there is a path of enlightenment and fulfilment we can take. Many people have gone through this path and uplift of their human experience when feeling lonely. It requires a deep healing, and mostly it requires a different mindset about our inner world and our daily life on the planet.

Be real.
Contradictory to the primitive mindset where we dwell in our emotions and thoughts of "I'm not good enough", is to see any emotion as a positive motion forward in your path, more important than anything else to get you to accelerate in your learning and actualisation. Ask questions and share your e-motions with people online and when you are courageous enough offline. Also, start by stating your end mission: "I am good, I am happy". After that, work with the emotions that pop-up to contradict that statement.

Great every day as a new opportunity
Saying a Good Morning to the day ahead, will automatically make you appreciate the fact that it can and will be a GOOD day, no matter what happens or does not happen. No matter what someone says or does or does not say or do. No matter how much stress, work, frustration you experience or how dumbfounded, bored or lonely you get. The lessons in the challenges are ahead and you can be at more peace with yourself as you've learned the lesson to be at more peace with yourself and taking actions forwards to a better fulfilled life and lifestyle. Your most important work is to care for yourself; the inner and outer. Take care of your body, mind and soul and along the way teach others to do the same and meet others half-way. Respect Mother Earth and Father Peace and make little contributions to a better way of life, a better society, a more beautiful humanity. This is your mission.